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Yesterday my therapist suggested that I might continue to not get the connection I crave from others until I find a way to let go of the frustration and resentment I feel about having to soften, slow down, and carefully consider how and what I say to whom. I had already admitted that I assume this would almost always be the case (slower/softer), and that I'd accepted it even while being frustrated and resentful of it; the idea that my reaction to the mismatch being a part of the alienation, even while trying to mitigate the mismatch itself, is difficult for me to swallow.

Date: 2017-06-06 04:15 am (UTC)
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This particular thing feels really crappy and unfair, on top of everything.

Bleh.

I'd invite you to come visit the Thicket where we appreciate fast/not-soft-but-not-cruel thoughts/speaking. But I get afraid: what if our fast places pointed in different directions and it was just worse/more frustrating than ever...

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