I'm sure that there are people, out there, for whom those social questions don't exist. I think most people, though, spend a lot of time worrying about it. It's scary and, for me, never seems to get clearer. While I'll manage to figure out the 'rules' for one situation, there'll always be 10 new situations popping up.
Along those lines, though, I do find that I'm getting an insy bit better at forgiving myself, when I do feel like I've messed up. So, maybe, the answer isn't about always being able to forsee what to do, but to get more nimble at moving on ...
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I'm sure that there are people, out there, for whom those social questions don't exist. I think most people, though, spend a lot of time worrying about it. It's scary and, for me, never seems to get clearer. While I'll manage to figure out the 'rules' for one situation, there'll always be 10 new situations popping up.
Along those lines, though, I do find that I'm getting an insy bit better at forgiving myself, when I do feel like I've messed up. So, maybe, the answer isn't about always being able to forsee what to do, but to get more nimble at moving on ...