It strikes me that in the Modern Internet Age there must be someone someplace that has similar tastes and attitudes and is doing all the hard work of watching all the porn out there to find the 20% that actually is likely to ring your bells.

I mean, for Pete's sake, there are sites that review ping pong balls. There must be someone who's reviewing porn with two men, a woman, a transgendered dwarf, and a waffle iron in order to find the best MMFTDWI porn and share the discovery with others.