One person's taste or preference is another person's idea of perversion.
Fetish seems like a different thing altogether to me... describing not being able to be attracted or stimulated without some thing or activity, as opposed to enjoying the presence of some thing or activity.
Anyway, if we were all the same and liked the same things and wanted to be the same it would be boring. I would say that none of it does really matter, unless one's tastes run to real non-consentual activities.
Whatever it is, it is simply what it is... "I am like this." "I like this." or "I like doing this." No labels or value judgements necessary, whether it's bedroom stuff, or anything else.
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Fetish seems like a different thing altogether to me... describing not being able to be attracted or stimulated without some thing or activity, as opposed to enjoying the presence of some thing or activity.
Anyway, if we were all the same and liked the same things and wanted to be the same it would be boring. I would say that none of it does really matter, unless one's tastes run to real non-consentual activities.
Whatever it is, it is simply what it is... "I am like this." "I like this." or "I like doing this." No labels or value judgements necessary, whether it's bedroom stuff, or anything else.