Energy is neither created nor destroyed just transformed. Or something like that, according to the principle.

So i was gonna ask this on your newer post but sticking it here--why so much concern that change/flux/cycling will lead you somewhere that is a)bad and b)unchangeable? As common a trope as (sometimes one-way) "doors to somewhere" is, how much does it really happen in "real life" (aside From say, severe mental illness, which YOU DO NOT HAVE). Also, since the world of non-people is so kind to you, why would you be so afraid of hearing what it has to say and where it may lead you?
(not judgemental questions--genuine ones)