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Thinking about writing while driving in: I often am honestly amazed at the skill with language people assign me, when all I can see is an inability to write the way I want, about what I want. When I do write nonomphaloskeptically (which is rare), it's always first or second person. At times, that perspective suits me, but I feel like it limits my scope beyond that which I'd always choose. I think it comes back to my discomfort with having to use 'he/his' or 'she/hers' in third person, and I've never made peace with 'zie/hir'. Until this can be resolved, third person remains a perspective that fundamentally renders me invisible and/or impossible, and it's hard to come to terms with that.