I think I get what you're saying, and I appreciate it. It's hard, stumbling ground for me, and it's not like I don't have my own separate issues with food to deal with at the same time. The resentment I sometimes feel for not being able to eat "like everyone else" gets tripped by my move towards vegetarianism, too. And, I feel guilty, but I miss certain comfort foods, and don't know that I'll be able to easily replace them. The traditional holidays, for example, fill me with a sense of loss and longing, because of the food I won't eat any more.