i'm pretty sure i'm on that list too. was it also the list where someone tried to argue that they're intersex because they are transsexual complete with post-op & full hormone status? eff that. i'm thinking about unsubbing.

there's a messageboard i read (but do not post to) that has similar arguments about names/language all the time. it often makes me want to throw my computer out the window even though i'm trying hard to understand all sides. it also makes me feel like there will never be words that feel right to me.