this is an experiment for all of us. no one knows how it is going to turn out. but the good thing about experimenting is that you are not committed to the first thing you try, or the second, or the third... you get to keep going until you find the thing that really "feels right" for you. if nothing established works, you can still keep trying new and creative things.
this is important to you. that makes it important to the people who care about you. you deserve to be happy and comfortable in your own body. if trying different pronouns helps you get closer to that, then i am totally for it and i will do what ever i can to facilitate it.
so shall it be "she" for the time being, with open permission to correct people who use "he"?
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Date: 2003-08-15 07:43 am (UTC)this is an experiment for all of us. no one knows how it is going to turn out. but the good thing about experimenting is that you are not committed to the first thing you try, or the second, or the third... you get to keep going until you find the thing that really "feels right" for you. if nothing established works, you can still keep trying new and creative things.
this is important to you. that makes it important to the people who care about you. you deserve to be happy and comfortable in your own body. if trying different pronouns helps you get closer to that, then i am totally for it and i will do what ever i can to facilitate it.
so shall it be "she" for the time being, with open permission to correct people who use "he"?