anger, again

It feels like a lot of things are making me angry lately, but in a weird way I'm not sure I can explain, it feels like the anger comes from a place of strength. Even if I can (maybe) make sense of that, I still don't know what to do with it, since it seems like so much of "getting along" is letting things slide, letting things go unremarked, not pointing out that maybe the emperor isn't wearing shoes, not taking unpopular positions. I don't understand, if it actually is strength behind this anger, how I can possibly do anything with it without being markedly less fun at parties and increasingly isolated. There's got to be a way, but I just can't see it. I want to get there, but all I see is here, and the two don't appear to connect.