Perspective

[adrienmundi]

Then:

Sex isn't really possible for me unless there's at least one girl involved.

Now:

Sex isn't even remotely likely unless there's at least one "girl" and no "boys" involved.

Do note the differences; they feel huge to me.

Comments

[adrienmundi]

For the moment, at least, "notboygirlwhenIwanttobe" seems the best I can come up with.

[martinhesselius.livejournal.com]

Makes sense. Wasn't sure if 'no boy' included self.

[adrienmundi]

I am a master solipsist; of course there's self referentiality.

[martinhesselius.livejournal.com]

Indeed.

Oddly, though I normally do not feel terribly male, I normally don't want to avoid being a boi, but would rather have the option of being boi/grrl/so many other things at whim. But though I may play a Bard on TV, I don't come equipped with Celtic shapechanging powers, alas, so my desires for a fluid identity remain largely in my thoughts. 'Fantastical,' as it were, in several senses of the word.