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I read a lot of blogs during the day, and curiously, the majority of them could loosely be called 'feminist blogs', in that no matter what topic they write about, the writers are aware of the loose domain of 'feminism' (even if the edges are blurry and mobile, particularly as you ask different feminists). For those who humor me and follow my links, the names are probably familiar: Echidne of the Snakes, Feministe, Pandagon, Fetch Me My Axe, Bitch Lab, to name the daily reads. I read others less frequently, but widely.

I think part of the appeal to me is that the writers don't come to politics with the perspective of playing a game; they are all very focused on the fact that this affects people's lives on a daily basis, and are not abstractions. This isn't to say that there is a paucity of theory; despite thinking of myself as a round heeled theory slut, I learn a fair amount, and my horizons have been broadened.

There is a problem, though, for me, and that is what feels like the totalizing discourse in core concepts. 'Women' tend to experience much more sexism than 'men'; I'll buy that, in spades (and that's not to say it's necessarily the fault of individual 'men' that they often recieve structural preference). I'd broaden that to say that anyone who isn't a 'man' will have greater structural difficulties than anyone who is, and that's where my problem with the discursive currents begins. The default setting for most people, including feminists, is that humanity can be divided into two and only two camps, 'women' and 'men'; obviously, I don't believe that (I also don't believe humanity can clearly be divided between 'male' and 'female'). I place myself firmly in the group of 'not-men', which in my mind includes 'women', but often the discourse posits only 'men' and 'women', leaving me either out in the cold, or assigned in ways I do not want or to which I do not consent (it's a testament to... something... that I often feel the assignment is 'man', but I don't think that's merely my own neuroses; difference is ignored until it can't be, and there are rarely other conceptual categories on the table. That I reject the transsexual narrative and/or label only further pushes me into either/or in the minds of most). It's hard for me to read, and to the limited extent that I do, participate without feeling like I'm being erased or overwritten. I don't want to insist that my position of gender variance be the subject, because I don't, but damn, it'd be nice if there were nods to people other than 'women' or 'men', even if there don't appear to be very many of us.

Date: 2006-09-22 01:48 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] katrionakeg.livejournal.com
there might be more than you think the trick is getting them to quit play on the house rigged table and start one of there own...once you find them that is

Date: 2006-09-22 11:24 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] katrionakeg.livejournal.com
ya unfortunatly the house has the biggest corner on the market...fight pack mentality i think has to be done using the fire with fire aproch

Date: 2006-09-22 08:41 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] katrionakeg.livejournal.com
unless you are comfortable being a carbon copy...you end up in this corner...take it from an ex-mom and a soon to be ex-wife & ex-civilian...the only thing that didn't raise a ripple was the ex-wife...the mother in law was dancing a jig over that...me being the wrong shade and all...but if you think i got off easy admitting i'm not maternal enough to be a mom...the ex-civilian ran the gambit...lucky for me those i care about are willing to let me make my own choices without judging me

Date: 2006-09-22 09:14 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] katrionakeg.livejournal.com
a misfit squared...hmmm...if we could eliminate the misfit as a classification...but that is asking alot of the sheep i guess..i'm sorry i can't tell you how to doo that or i would be already attempting it myself...

Date: 2006-09-22 09:28 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] katrionakeg.livejournal.com
everybody deserves a fair shake and has the right to feel that they do too

Date: 2006-09-23 10:59 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] belledame222.livejournal.com
Yeah, I'm aware of this. it's why i tend to move in the direction of queer/gender studies rather than simply womens' studies per se. but yah, the general discourse tends to pull one back in a more simplistic direction sometimes. i'll try to stay more on top of that.

Date: 2006-09-23 12:30 pm (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
Please don't think I'm being specifically critical of your writing, because I'm not. I'm talking more about broad, general trends that feel like default settings, much/most of which I attribute to language, though I think those structures do permeate all too much of feminist thinking and writing *in general*, sometimes even painfully and overtly. Curiously (and this probably says more about me than anything else) the inclusivity of transsexuals (most generally it seems of the ftm flavor) only seems to heighten that feeling of alienation, as if once allowances are made for that difference, the system is shut and there are no other options. Thanks for the links; I'll check them out.

Date: 2006-09-23 11:01 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] belledame222.livejournal.com
("studies" for lack of a better word; "ism" doesn't quite translate somehow)

Date: 2006-09-23 11:05 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] belledame222.livejournal.com
d'you know this blog, btw?

http://jackadandy.net/blog/blog.html

or this one?

http://www.myhusbandbetty.com/

Betty has her own blog, somewhere. There are also boards; I keep meaning to post more often.

Date: 2006-09-23 11:07 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] belledame222.livejournal.com
Lady Aster considers herself a feminist as well, and writes smartly about a number of things; doesn't update very often, tho', but worth checking out.

http://www.escortblogs.net/ladyaster.htm

Date: 2006-09-23 11:15 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] belledame222.livejournal.com
-also--I thought i found your LJ through trin? maybe not? if not i'd def. say check her out, maybe friend her (her best stuff is behind the lock); and maybe a couple other folks on my friends list.

Date: 2006-09-23 11:15 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] belledame222.livejournal.com
oops:

http://trinityva.livejournal.com/

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